@stuckinarut2: "I was struck with just how stupid the average JW would have come across in such a crowd."
Exhibit A:
has anyone read dawkins new book the god delusion yet?
he discusses the creation book on pages 119-121. he says that he discusses this particular tract only because it has had such a wide circulation - no fewer than 6 of which have been sent to him personally.
well i think he has at least 7 copies by now because i personally know one witness who sent him one following his recent the roof of all evil?
@stuckinarut2: "I was struck with just how stupid the average JW would have come across in such a crowd."
Exhibit A:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j8hzakyfazc this is a talk this year about how to stay loyal to the cult.
it talks about not blaming yourself when your child is dfed.
but wait, when i was in the cult the elders told the parents of dfed children that it was their fault.
@smiddy3: "These ones that come back are not stupid they know they have been manipulated and they will never be loyal to the religion of Jehovah's Witnesses."
There are some victims of shunning who have learned to deal with their trauma of familial betrayal in precisely the opposite way. I know personally of a few who have returned to the Organization with a newfound sense of Stockholm Syndrome. These hostages have coped by idolizing the cold hand that beat them and severed them from the love of their family. The reality that their families may not sincerely love them in the truest sense of the word perhaps became too unbearable to confront. So, the victim sought refuge in the fantasy of those who wronged them being the most loving, caring, benevolent, life-saving connections they could ever have.
Alternatively, as you brought out, a similar opinion to yours is held by Harvard Professor of Psychology, Steven Pinker. He writes:
"If dissenters are punished, and can anticipate they're going to be punished, then you may have a situation where no one actually believes something, but everyone believes that everyone else believes it. Therefore, no one is willing to be the little boy that says the emperor is naked."
This explains the lagging financial support and lack of comradeship in the Organization. The amount of PIMO members silenced by the threat of shunning may be a number we'll never know.
one of my all-time favourite illustrations:.
bible teach, chap.
16 p. 154 pars.
@stuckinarut2: "...just 1% of deadly poison in a glass of water makes it dangerous".
The problem with Jehovah's Witnesses is, they never started off in a clear glass of water. They've been swimming around in the murky fluids of a cesspool since 1884. Henceforth, any proceeding drops of poison go by completely unnoticed. Vision clouded, members blindly drift along in that deleterious solvent known as the Watchtower.
@pale.emperor Exactly right. By their own illustration, Jehovah's Witnesses should eagerly hand the chalk over to us rebels, allowing us to prove what bumbling errors we've been exalting. The double standard of silencing apostates is firmly in place for one reason only:
"If it can be destroyed by the truth, it DESERVES to be destroyed by the truth." - Carl Sagan
The Watchtower leadership knows full well that the truthful information we possess is ultimately what can destroy such a poorly constructed religious ideology.
i'm listening to a podcast where a former elder describes how another elder conducted the watchtower study about hyperbole.
the elder called it hyper-bowl.
soon the whole congregation called it hyper-bowl.
Haha, you just brought up a funny memory of mismatched music and lyrics, @dubstepped.
I distinctly remember a couple of years ago when the song we were to sing was Jehovah is our Refuge. The music was all wrong, but the enthusiastic brother a few rows ahead of me belted out (in perfect time with the beat):
"JE-HO-VAH... is our REF-U-GEE!"
Hey, a little ad-lib never hurt anyone.
it’s quite affirming to see the horrific material that they’re serving up at the convention this year.
aside from blatant homophobia, the scenes at the end of the convention that are discussed on another thread stoop to new levels of fear mongering.
it seems to occur to nobody inside the organisation that this kind of material could trigger fear, deprsssion, anxiety, stress.
Not quite twenty years ago, there was a big stir when my father welded two pieces of steel together to make a pendant in the shape of a cross for a part he played in the meeting, acting like a priest. Everyone was so offended because he had the nerve to make an idol, even for illustration purposes. Now with these Touchstone Pictures-esque productions, there are machine guns being toted by the actor brothers as casually as briefcases on a Saturday morning. Clearly, my old man was way ahead of Jehovah's digital chariot.
As I once asked him last year: "Dad... be honest. Is this the same religion you remember from years ago?"
He paused while looking straight ahead. Finally, he said it. "No."
@stcukinarut2 Described the situation best by saying my father had been cooked like the frog in a pot of water. Slowly and slowly, the temperature got turned up. And now, it's too late to leap out of this cult which is so clearly bubbling over with scalding nonsense.
i've heard numerous people here say something like, 'the best revenge is living a good life'.
well, apparently the wt agrees, in the august study edition:.
at times, people maysay unfair or critical things about us.
Damn, DOC. You should have trademarked that sh*t.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-5748191/woman-blamed-sexual-abuse-ostracism-jehovahs-witness-reasons-killing-suicide.html.
revealed: ex-jehovah's witness turned model, 45, left a video and suicide note blaming childhood sex abuse and exclusion from her religion for killing her husband and children.
lauren stuart of keego harbor, michigan had been researching suicide methods on youtube and videos on how to use a glock for weeks .
@StephaneLaliberte: "Religious people go against their instinct. That is, they will feel this way until the fault comes down to their religious beliefs. Then, they will stop reasoning, and turn everything upside out. They are unable to consider the possibility that their could be something wrong with their faith."
EXACTLY THE SAME sentiment is expressed here at 07:04 into the video. These four minutes you'll listen to are the most heart-wrenching, frustrating and anger-inducing comments you'll hear from Witnesses rationalizing the suicide of a distraught son being shunned. Parents wouldn't even read his suicide note in case it contained anything "apostate". That was their final act of shunning:
what do you make of this part of the march 2018 watchtower study edition?.
2 among other things, peter urged his brothers: “be hospitable to one another.” (1 pet.
4:9) the word “hospitality” in greek literally means “fondness for, or kindness to, strangers.” note, however, that peter urged his christian brothers and sisters to be hospitable “to one another,” to those whom they already knew and associated with.
I remember when I was younger and going house to house with my father, he would say to the householder, "Imagine if everyone in the world abided by just the one verse, the 'Golden Rule', how different things would be. 'Do unto others...'" and he'd let them finish the well-known Christian quote.
I guess my old man misunderstood the term "others" and misapplied it to include everyone outside of the Watchtower. Or maybe Jesus got it wrong and needed some New Light.
New rule! Treat others (the world) with INhospitableness, the way you don't like to be treated.
what do you make of this part of the march 2018 watchtower study edition?.
2 among other things, peter urged his brothers: “be hospitable to one another.” (1 pet.
4:9) the word “hospitality” in greek literally means “fondness for, or kindness to, strangers.” note, however, that peter urged his christian brothers and sisters to be hospitable “to one another,” to those whom they already knew and associated with.
"Note, however, that Peter urged his Christian brothers and sisters to be hospitable 'to one another,' to those whom they already knew and associated with."
Really! Let's take a look at Matthew 5:47, then, shall we?
"If you are kind only to your friends, how are you different from anyone else? Even pagans do that." - New Living Translation.
Watchtower's rendering of the words "one another" is nothing but a self-serving mutilation of the original text. Furthermore, they are in no position to bemoan that the rest of the world is uncooperative with Witnesses when it is they themselves who are against helping those outside their minority group.
Watchtower members, take a look at the stimuli you're putting out there in the world: segregation, selfishness, hostility and entitlement. What you put in, you get out.
i wonder sometimes just how jws try and comprehend what perfect life would really be like if "adam and eve" had not sinned?.
how would we live?
what would the realities be like?
Omg imagine no WiFi.